"A child who has become master of his acts through long and repeated exercises, and who has been encouraged by the pleasant and interesting activities in which he has been engaged, is a child filled with health and joy and remarkable for his calmness and discipline."
Dr. María Montessori
While habits are formed through repetition, creating a positive impression often occurs within seconds. Your child's expression of gratitude, respect, and kindness is best conveyed through good manners, which also serve as a strong indicator of their future behavior. Good manners hold significant importance, whether the situation is special or ordinary. While your close friends and acquaintances might not explicitly state it, they continuously observe and assess your child's conduct on a daily basis. Therefore, displaying good manners not only showcases courtesy but also reflects self-esteem, respect for others, and a willingness to make a positive contribution to society.
Practicing good manners at the table offers various benefits for your child, both physical and social. When children learn to eat with good manners, they are less likely to offend and more likely to leave a positive impression in important social situations as they grow. Engaging in frequent and informal conversations during meals promotes the development of vital and secure relationships, enabling your child to reach their full potential.
Practicing good manners at the table is essential to teach them to control their impulses. Developing willpower and self-control from an early age is a strong predictor of success in life. Encouraging your child to exhibit self-control at the table is an excellent way to practice and nurture these essential skills. When your child pays attention to what is on their plate, they are more likely to enjoy the meal and avoid overeating.
In addition to social benefits, practicing good manners at the table has significant health implications. For example, eating together as a family has been shown to reduce risky behaviors in teenagers. Conversely, improper manners can lead to the spread of germs and diseases. Furthermore, eating in an unstructured manner, such as from a lunchbox, a package, or in the car, can affect your child's sense of satisfaction, causing them to either overeat or consume less than what is necessary. In contrast, using a plate and sitting at a properly prepared table helps to regulate portion sizes and encourages healthier food choices.
Encouraging your child to have the same lunch as everyone in their class fosters positive communication and a sense of belonging. This not only raises awareness of your child's eating habits but also enhances their sense of being part of a group. Teaching and instilling good table manners provide invaluable skills that will benefit them physically, socially, and emotionally throughout their lives.
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